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Humble Inquiry: To Lead is to Listen

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The important lesson here is that teams almost always work better when the higher status person in the group exhibits some humility by active listening, this acknowledges that the others are crucial to good outcomes and creates psychological space for them to develop identities and roles in the group that feel equitable and fair.

…someone is still in charge, but if the group has a chance to evolve, the members can find their niches that both facilitate the accomplishment of the task and satisfy their own personal needs. Status and rank do not become equal, but teammates are comfortable with the appropriate amount of status commensurate with their roles.

Helping: How to Offer, Give, and Receive Help by Edgar H. Schein (San Francisco: Berrett-Koehler, 2009) 108


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Written by kirkistan

March 10, 2014 at 8:16 am

All social behavior is reciprocal

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My basic argument [is] that social life is partly economics and partly theater…. There are few cultural universals, but anthropologists agree that all societies are stratified and that all social behavior is reciprocal.

–Edgar H. Schein, Helping (San Francisco: Berrett-Koehler Publishers, 2008)



Written by kirkistan

February 18, 2014 at 8:49 am

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